Want Better S*x: Tell Your Woman THIS In Bed

For hotter s*x, talk about your fantasies. Telling your girlfriend about your dreams may enhance your intimacy, finds a new study.

Why? Describing what you think about when

you doze off is a veiled way to discuss your emotions. Dreams are a very private thing, as they reflect highly personal matters. So, if you choose to share your dreams with your partner, it will automatically bring you closer, since you get to talk about topics that you wouldn’t otherwise talk about.

Some of your midnight musings may do more for your bond than others. Experts suggest revealing dreams about life stressors—for example, you’re being chased by your boss—or those in which your partner pops up. If your fantasy is embarrassing—say, your partner is a prisoner, and you’re the controlling warden—“you don’t necessarily have to tell the exact content. Extrapolate instead: “You could just, for instance, ask, ‘Honey, do you think that I, in any way, limit you in our relationship?’”.

The study found that dream sharing among couples declined over time. But experts advise opening up once a week. Of course,It us not recommended to share all dreams. One that is off limits: s*x with your ex. Consider that an overshare.

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